My daughter is a first year. She did great last quarter. Adjusted well. Got good grades. This quarter she is homesick. We are 45 minutes away and she wants to come home every weekend. Is winter quarter harder mentally? After 3 weeks at home is it harder to readjust? Fall is new and exciting. Spring you are in the homestretch. What’s others experience?
Many first-year students at UCLA experience increased mental challenges during the winter quarter, often referred to as the "winter slump." This period is marked by shorter days and less excitement compared to the fall quarter, leading to feelings of fatigue and irritability due to environmental factors like gloomy weather. Additionally, academic pressures tend to intensify as students delve deeper into their coursework, which can contribute to a sense of burnout.
Homesickness and Readjustment
Your daughter's desire to return home every weekend is common among first-year students, with over 70% reporting feelings of homesickness. After spending three weeks at home, readjusting to campus life can indeed be more challenging. To help her manage this transition, consider the following strategies:
- Establish Routines: Encourage her to create a consistent schedule for meals, studying, and social activities to foster a sense of normalcy.
- Balance Communication: While staying in touch with family is important, suggest setting specific times for calls to help her focus on her campus experience.
- Engage Socially: Reconnecting with campus clubs or organizations can help alleviate feelings of loneliness and enhance her social network.
If she continues to struggle, UCLA offers several resources:
- Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS) for mental health support.
- 24/7 Crisis Support at (310) 825-0768.
- RISE Center for resilience-building activities.
- Togetherall, an anonymous online community for peer support.